Ladies today, lets talk about classy taboo talk! At birth, we are destined to be classy. We are destined to speak well, learn etiquette, be poised and to sit regally. This is what womanhood is all about. Let no one or nothing in life tell you otherwise and certainly don’t let anyone bring you down.

By being classy, I don’t mean being bourgeois or walking around in brand name clothing. Being classy doesn’t mean attending an Ivy League school nor is it the color of your skin or your upbringing. By classy, I mean our demeanor, how we carry ourselves. It’s how we talk and relate to people and most importantly, to maintain a level of humility.

And ladies, we have to remember that we can not be classy without respect. Respect for others and respect for oneself, which includes self love and having a high self esteem. Classy is best when people can see it and feel it, without us having to say a word. When we walk through the door, we should exude class simply by the manner in which we conduct and carry ourselves.

Let’s keep it classy ladies!

Why we do love each other? Why are we back stabbing each other? We are not competition girls, we are empowering women. It doesn’t cost a thing to compliment one another.

Friends, family, coworkers and others, let’s just learn to love, respect, and value ourselves. Why can’t we acknowledge a compliment by saying, “Thank you.” Instead of saying thank you, you’d rather say, “I’m old, I’m fat, I don’t feel it,” or “Are you mocking me?” I’ve even heard someone say, “Did they pay you to tell me that?”

We need to take our self esteem back and stop the negativity within ourselves and others! Build powerful woman to woman relationships. It is okay to gossip but, do it in a positive way
and empower your friends. Let’s make beyond the sky our limit, because it’s too
big for us to squeeze. Let’s teach humanity and help the other genders recognize the
power of a woman.

Helen Keller once said, “When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle
is wrought in our life, or in the life of another. “

Confidence is the most attractive gift a woman can possess. If you don’t
have it, you will feel equivalent to an empty bottle.

The first element to gaining confidence is to have profound faith in the higher power.

Secondly, you must love thy self. A trick that I do, is to look at myself in the mirror and say my name and to praise myself by saying out loud, “I am beautiful. I am amazing and I can conquer the world! I am successful!” Say it with confidence when you are praising yourself. Learn to value and believe in you!

Wouldn’t it be powerful if you fell in love with yourself so deeply, that you would do just about anything to make yourself happy? This is precisely how much life loves you and want you to nurture yourself and if you believe it, the universe will affirm your worth.

Once you learn to do the things I have shared with you, you will begin to enjoy a lifelong love affair with yourself and I promise you, it will bring you the richest fulfillment from inside out!

Author Alan Cohen wrote, “Let’s stop running for our self, lets unfold our own myth, let’s
count our blessings and shake the wold with our greatness.”

But I must explain to you how all this mistaken idea of denouncing pleasure and praising pain was born and I will give you a complete account of the system.

No one rejects dislikes, or avoids pleasure itself, because it is pleasure, but because those who do not know how to pursue pleasure.